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Our Engagement Party

Thursday, August 4th, 2005 at 4:50 pm

It was a perfect, California summer day and we took full advantage by celebrating our engagement with family and friends. Ryan’s Mom, Patty, flew out from Illinois to help host a great, backyard party. My Mom, Flora, spent the past three weeks redecorating her home and cooking furiously in order to host our growing community. I loved watching Patty mingle and chat with everyone so easily! Julie Vanloan, my soon-to-be bridesmaid and dear friend from grad school decorated the backyard with lanterns and tea lights.

Everyone there and all the effort put into the day made us feel incredibly blessed; Ryan and I continue to be humbled at the community we share. We are hopeful for the ways they will challenge and love and support us as a couple - we’ve never wanted to approach marriage as a solo mission. Thank you to all the friends and family that came out for wine and good food, and especially, to share in our excitement.

We are counting down the days…

by Rachell

Free Activities for Engaged Couples

Tuesday, June 14th, 2005 at 7:48 am

There are all sorts of perks to getting engaged. We’re just starting to learn some of the least expected, but fun benefits preparing for marriage. For all other engaged, or soon-to-be engaged couples, be sure to get out on the town and celebrate your upcoming marriage in style with some free events. You may be broke after the wedding, so why not start taking advantage of freebies now!

Reception Hall Cocktail hours

If you’re looking for us on Wednesday early evenings, we’ll be at the Garden Court in Palo Alto, drinking fine wine and tasting delicious delicacies that the staff prepares for engaged couples to learn their menu. They truly want you to come by, bring your family, etc. Marla took us around the facility, while Victor fed us amazing hors d’oeuvres and entrees.

Registering

Pretty much any larger retail store will allow you to register. So head to Crate & Barrel, Pottery Barn, Home Depot, or your other favorites to play with the special register laser gun. Of course, you can register online at most of them, but it isn’t nearly as fun. And just because you register, doesn’t mean you need to tell anyone… so go ahead, make your way to the local Toys-R-Us and make a Christmas list that will make Santa fill his pants.

Although Todd warns that you’ll start looking around the kitchen for the pot you just registered for. So don’t let your mind get too carried away.

Anyone have any other tips on fun activities for newly-engaged couples?

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by Ryan

We’re Engaged!

Friday, June 3rd, 2005 at 4:31 pm

When your day starts at 3:30 in the morning, you’re probably on your way to the snow. But it’s June, so Rachell & I had long since turned in our snowboards for the year. Instead we ate grapes Rachell fed me grapes while Ottmar serenaded us on the drive to Napa to catch a sunrise flight on a hot air balloon.

From over 2,000 feet up, we floated over the Napa Valley with breathtaking views; learning all sorts of things about balloons that will give us lots to talk about at parties. A delicious champagne brunch followed with our pilot, Ferrel Gray, and the rest of our flight. Bob Barbarick and his wife Cindy from Balloons Above the Valley, were kind enough to let me barter some consulting for the ride.

We worked off our full stomachs with a quiet stroll through downtown Napa before heading to Cakebread Winery; our first tour of the day.

Instead of dropping by several vineyards along Route 29 for tastings, we opted for more involved tours and special tastings for this special day. At Cakebread, Tim Gratchen gave us a mini-tour of the winery and gardens before serving up four fabulous recipes paired with four wines. Rachell took notes on how the components of the wine and food create an epicurean harmony, while I worked to refine my palate eat all the food. We both highly recommend you sample some Cakebread for yourself next time you’re out. She liked the reds… And I even liked the whites.

About a mile down the road is Niebaum-Coppola Winery, where David Liniak, the son of Rachell’s co-worker, Carolyn, was gracious enough to set us up with a complimentary tour and tasting. We learned all about why the Director of the Godfather makes such great wine.

All day I had been trying to forget that I’d later be getting down on one knee. After all, I couldn’t let on that this day was somehow more significant than I had been letting on. But in the midst of Kevin’s eloquent recitation of the history of the winery, my mind began to drift to the importance of the day, and of my love for the beauty beside me. It was truly a blessed day, with a blessed woman.

After taking advantage of David’s employee discount with a few more tastings and a few bottles of wine, we took a stroll through the vineyards. I stole a kiss from Rachell in one of the vineyard gardens and the surpise made for a great shot. But we still had more adventures for the day, so we left the vines for our last tasting…

Set high on a hill in the heart of the Carneros appellation stands the majestic Domaine Carneros chateau overlooking the Napa Valley. The setting truly is remarkable.

Walking up the grand staircase Rachell spotted the small balcony on the top floor with the table set for two.

“I wonder what sort of pretentious people get to sit up there?”
Rachell thought to herself
 

Needless to say, soon after arriving we were escorted up the stairs, through a long hallway, and up to the balcony with the table set for two. In order not to show my cards just yet, I acted just as blown away as she was. This wasn’t difficult, because it really is a remarkable setting, looking out to all of the Napa Valley from the top floor of a beautiful chateau, above our loyal subjects.

Our private server, Jude Cassel, treated us to three sparkling wines and three pinots complete with crackers, cheeses, fruits and nuts. After nearly two hours, Rachell and I shared our last toast accompanied by hand-crafted chocolate truffles. We stood overlooking the valley as I began sharing more about my love for Miss Rachell.

One thing they never tell you is how hard it is to actually transition to getting to one knee. I had played the moment in my mind a thousand times, but when you’re actually there, it’s far more difficult than imagined. When else is a particular set of words so tied into a body movement?

After many attempts, I finally told her once more of my love for her, stepped back, knelt, and looked up. I hope to recall that image of Rachell in my mind forever. She was so beautiful, so surprised, and so happy. Suddenly the words came easily, “Will you marry me?”.

The rest is a bit hazy, as my mind was racing faster than ever. Rachell cried and nodded and smiled and cried… From the balcony with the table set for two, in front of everyone in Napa, I hugged my beautiful fiance for the first time. With ring in hand, I finally stepped back to place the ring on her finger, sealing the deal. The guests and servers below cheered as we shared our engagement with the crowd.

We spent the last bit of our time at the chateau on the terrace, sharing stories of the day and taking pictures. And just before they locked the gates for closing, we escaped to Sonoma for our last adventure for the day. Following Jude’s advice, and with very full stomachs, we exchanged our picnic plans for a “short” hike to the Sonoma Overlook, where we watched the sunset over the Sonoma Valley.

May God be praised for weaving our lives together, and for orchestrating a day that was truly from the pages of a fairytale.

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by Ryan